Non-Career Advice: Liza Lubell.

Friday, November 7, 2014

Non-Career Advice is a series that asks people - young, old, and in a range of occupations - for words of wisdom unrelated to work, career-building, dollars, or getting ahead.


Liza Lubell / Floral Designer
Also: Crafter / world traveler  / apple pie & whiskey aficionado 
Age: 32

Focus on what has staying power. (Hint: it's not money.) "When I first began my flower career, I didn’t really have much in mind in the way of goals. I knew I loved flowers and thought supporting myself vis a vis “playing with flowers” all day sounded like a good idea. As I dove deeper into my work, though, I put my professional hat on a little tighter and started to create some goals: wouldn’t it be nice to have my work in a magazine, or to travel to another country for a job, or have people write articles about me, and so on.

At first, checking some of those items off my list was exhilarating. But while I'm certainly proud of my work, I've realized something over the course of the past few years: the more we rely on external forms of praise to validate ourselves, the less it works — and the exhilaration I get from those sorts of successes doesn't have much staying power. The things that do are much simpler (and, it turns out, right under my nose all along): family, friends, a sense of home. The happiness I get from cultivating and nurturing personal relationships is much longer-lasting than any I could derive elsewhere. It makes me feel rich in a way that's much more special than money."

Thank you so much, Liza! More from the Non-Career Advice series, here.

Photo by Matthew Williams.

9 comments:

Kelly said...

Thank you for this. Such powerful words.

max said...

wonderful wonderful advice.

Kathy said...

Best thing I've read all day! Thank you for sharing this :-)

Rebecca said...

I love this so much. Thank you!!

Shoko said...

So lovely to have you, Liza, thank you so much!

Anonymous said...

brilliant!

burntfeather said...

So beautiful :) I could read the series over and over Shoko!

Andrea Weinberg said...

Really really lovely.

sherry said...

Brilliant! Love this.

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